The Process of Flirting

 When flirting you must be very smooth and not too nerdy or too corny. You must also have an interest in somebody because if you don't you're pretty much screwed. When you're flirting you have to make sure you don't talk to much unless the other person likes that kind of stuff. Also, make sure that you don't say really embarassing things and make yourself sound totally wierd, because that will get you no where. Trust me. It is still important to act yourself and not try to have a totally different personality because you do want the other person to like you for who you are. Another thing you could do is compliment. Tell the girl she has pretty eyes or a really pretty smile or tell the guy he has a pretty smile too or compliment him on his sexy body. Guys like that kind of stuff because they work out tremendously to get rewarded on how good their body looks. Girls, if the guy seems totally cocky, that is not the business. It get's annoying real quick. Be sure to always listen and not seem bored on the converstion and if you are getting bored start a new conversation that would seem more interesting. I'm not that good at flirting so if these tips don't help, i'm sorry!

Exemplification Draft

      My boyfriend, River, is the most stubborn person I know. He has such a negative attitude sometimes. For example, the biggest thing he stubborn about is, me talking to his parents. Whenever I ask if I can come inside his house to say hello to his parents, he flips out and starts running his mouth with excuses to why I cant. He says things like, "No baby, their embarrassing."  or "No, please baby, their not that cool." I honestly don't care if their not cool. All I want is for them to think to themselves "Man, this girl is an amazing pick," 
      Another example is, my church just put together a youth group that would meet on Tuesdays and Sundays and I happily invited River to join it with me. When I asked him if he wanted to, he told me he couldn't which was understandable because he's pretty busy during the week. But I asked him if he could on Sundays, and his response to that did not please me, he said, "That's when I play Call of Duty!" I tried to convince him that it would only be a couple hours but because he's so stubborn he stuck to his original decision which was no.